Post by grizabella on Jan 3, 2012 0:59:58 GMT -5
As it's the beginning of a new year, I'm looking back and realising how far Bella's come in the time she's been a part of the family.
When Bella first arrived she hated car rides with a passion and wouldn't allow herself to get comfortable, just standing up and shaking. She's gotten so much more comfortable in the car and is happy to lie down in the back. Now she even gets excited when she's led to the car!
To start with, walks were an issue too, Bella never enjoyed them and would constantly stop (meaning I often had to carry her across roads for safety!) and was very eager to get home. After lots of encouragement, treats and patience, she improved, especially after we moved house. These days she loves her walks and gets so excited when she sees the walking gear come out, it makes me so happy! ;D Bel can be a bit of a puller, which I'm working on, but I'm pleased that she feels happy enough on her walks to be so enthusiastic about them.
The biggest problem that Bel had was separation anxiety. Initially we'd been leaving her in just one room, which resulted in whining, howling, great scratches in doors and a ripped up carpet. Upon advice, I tried getting her comfortable in a crate, which she was fine with for very short bursts, but when I left her to go out she got very distressed.
After reading a helpful book, I wondered if Bella was getting more stressed because she felt trapped and enclosed, and we tried leaving her for a few minutes with the run of half the house. This was much more successful, and we gradually increased the time she was left. There were a few steps backwards, where she'd howl when left only for about ten minutes but we slowly got there.
Luckily, there is usually someone home so there was no rush to get her used to being alone for periods. The other day we were out for five hours, and came home to a happy Bella, who'd been snoozing the day away and playing with her toys. I'm so relieved that her separation issues have almost completely disappeared, and I'm sure she's much happier now too, now she's realised that we are in fact coming back to her.
I think Bella's had a great first year of life, we are looking forward to seeing what the second will bring!
Bella's grown up quite a bit since we got her:
Then...
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...and now!
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When Bella first arrived she hated car rides with a passion and wouldn't allow herself to get comfortable, just standing up and shaking. She's gotten so much more comfortable in the car and is happy to lie down in the back. Now she even gets excited when she's led to the car!
To start with, walks were an issue too, Bella never enjoyed them and would constantly stop (meaning I often had to carry her across roads for safety!) and was very eager to get home. After lots of encouragement, treats and patience, she improved, especially after we moved house. These days she loves her walks and gets so excited when she sees the walking gear come out, it makes me so happy! ;D Bel can be a bit of a puller, which I'm working on, but I'm pleased that she feels happy enough on her walks to be so enthusiastic about them.
The biggest problem that Bel had was separation anxiety. Initially we'd been leaving her in just one room, which resulted in whining, howling, great scratches in doors and a ripped up carpet. Upon advice, I tried getting her comfortable in a crate, which she was fine with for very short bursts, but when I left her to go out she got very distressed.
After reading a helpful book, I wondered if Bella was getting more stressed because she felt trapped and enclosed, and we tried leaving her for a few minutes with the run of half the house. This was much more successful, and we gradually increased the time she was left. There were a few steps backwards, where she'd howl when left only for about ten minutes but we slowly got there.
Luckily, there is usually someone home so there was no rush to get her used to being alone for periods. The other day we were out for five hours, and came home to a happy Bella, who'd been snoozing the day away and playing with her toys. I'm so relieved that her separation issues have almost completely disappeared, and I'm sure she's much happier now too, now she's realised that we are in fact coming back to her.
I think Bella's had a great first year of life, we are looking forward to seeing what the second will bring!
Bella's grown up quite a bit since we got her:
Then...
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...and now!
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jpg image hosting